Before my days were filled with meetings, calendar holds, and laughter shared with my fellow Fellows, my workdays looked quite different. During college, I spent my time between classes working as a preschool teacher. Instead of desks and office space, I was surrounded by tiny humans, leading circle time and art projects. Now, as I sit at my desk reflecting on the transition from classroom to office, I’ve discovered that many of the lessons I learned from preschoolers have found their way into my Fellowship experience.
Here are a few timeless lessons I’ve learned from four-year-olds.
Patience. Anyone who has ever spent time with young children knows the questions never end – countless “why’s” and “what’s.” Patience is more than useful; it is essential. From reminding the same child to push in their chair, carry their plate with both hands, or use walking feet, patience is constantly tested. Now, as I take on new programs, tasks, and responsibilities, I lean on this same patience to learn, grow, connect, and offer myself grace.
Adaptability. From tummy aches to paint-splattered hair and activities that end too quickly—or stretch on far longer than expected—adaptability is woven into every moment with children. Children keep you on your toes, constantly challenging you to pivot, adapt, and embrace the unexpected with grace and creativity. Likewise, in the Fellowship, meetings get canceled, events shift unexpectedly, and surprises pop up regularly. Through it all, I rely on the same adaptability I honed in the classroom.
Joy. Four-year-olds can find joy in just about anything—a paper airplane, a silly comment, cold weather, even a puddle. They radiate happiness no matter the circumstances. While my workday no longer includes recess or free play, I remind myself to seek joy in the everyday, through small tasks, meaningful interactions, and even in the quiet moments when joy feels elusive.
Whether in classrooms or offices, the lessons stick. Patience, adaptability, and joy, first taught by four-year-olds, continue to guide me through this Fellowship journey.
